GIFTING the couple a tool to create a thriving relationship
Wedding day is often said to be the most important day of a couple’s life and there is enormous effort put into the perfection of it. But what comes after the wedding day? Often the thought is that once you have found your perfect partner the rest will flow naturally. However, relationships are not easy and as they are one of the key contributing factors on a person’s overall happiness I think that a great deal of thought should be put into them. The most impactful gift anyone can give a couple starting their journey together as a married couple is a beautiful design workbook that focuses on creating a thriving relationship. And Our Relationship Design workbook is a tool to do exactly that. Each section of the book is meant to inspire the couple to really evaluate who they are as individuals and what they want, desire, and hope as a couple. The book is more about what they want to experience in the relationship than planning certain milestones.
The design process is to be approached with enthusiastic playfulness and by putting attention and focus on mapping out hopes, desires, and wants and the couple will end up having their very own vision for their relationship with practical instructions. In other words, the end result will be a custom made Relationship Design guiding to a thriving relationship.
At the core of the design process is following joy; what sparks joy inside of the individuals and what are the common sparks of joy.
Our Relationship design
Take a look below inside the book and…
…to give the most impactful wedding gift.
Bucket lists
Creating bucket lists together with a partner helps you map out your dreams as a couple in life. Use a good amount of time and play with wild ideas when you plan your bucket lists together. The workbook includes 6 different bucket lists: Top 5 travel experiences, top 5 cities to visit, date experiences, sexy & naughty experiences, funniest things to try out and the strangest things to try out.
Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get—only with what you are expecting to give—which is everything.
-Katherine Hepburn
Do’s and Don’ts
The premise of designing your relationship is that relationships are meant to be about thriving, not surviving. As our beliefs have an extremely powerful influence on our behavior, choose your beliefs carefully and design your principles (do’s and don’ts) so that you get a relationship that you love, a relationship where both of you can flourish.
Instead of looking for a person who checks all the boxes, focus on a person with whom you can imagine yourself writing a story with that entails edits and revisions.
-esther perel
Our planner
No one can say what’s the best break down of time for you. Think what would be optimum for you. How much time do you want to dedicate for the two of you? How much time would be great to spend with common friends? How much time would be great to spend alone or in own activities so that you can both offer the best versions of yourselves to each other?
Time is a created thing. To say “I don’t have time” is to say “I don’t want to”.