A GIFT THAT SHOWs how much you Love
Our Relationship Design is about creating a relationship you truly want and love. It breaks away from traditional relationship advice, offering a fresh approach to building a love story you didn’t even know was possible.
Together with your partner you get to dive into different aspects of your relationship like beliefs, money, sex, time, bucket lists, argument styles, and love languages. It’s not about how it “should” be, it’s all about how you want it to be!
The workbook helps and guides you along the way. Some topics are light and fun like planning your naughty bucket list items and some are more difficult but really important like discussing your values.
This is a gift that shows you care about your partner and you want to have a thriving relationship. It is a gift that keeps on giving, it’s far more than a workbook – it’s a journey into your dream relationship!
“Relationships should be about thriving, not surviving.”
START With WHY
Creating a Relationship Design is based on the idea of not just finding a perfect partner and waiting to see what will come of the relationship but designing a relationship that you really want. At the core of the design process is following joy; what sparks joy inside of you.
Our surroundings heavily influence our thinking. Media, culture, friends, and family have a lot to do with the way we perceive things. For example, movies usually end at the perfect proposal or at the beautiful wedding easily giving us the idea that if you just find your soulmate, everything else will work out. On the other hand, people say relationships are hard, they require a lot of work and the divorce rates are backing those comments. Some people value the quantity of the years spent together over the quality of those years. They might admire the couple next door for being together for 40 years without asking if they enjoy their relationship or have they been grinding their teeth for decades.
YOUR RELATIONSHIP, YOUR DESIGN!
LOVE LANGUAGES
We easily offer affection in the way that we hope to receive it. Or if we don’t like something we don’t realize to offer it to others. Knowing each other’s love languages is the secret to love that lasts, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, the author of 5 love languages. According to Chapman the key is learning to express love in a way that speaks to your partner. Chapman suggests the languages are: acts of service, receiving gifts, physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation. We are all different in the ways we express love and with the ways we hope to receive it. It’s also possible that we try to express our love with ideas we have gotten from songs or movies without even noticing it. See full post about love languages here.
INGREDIENTS OF JOY
Your individual ingredients of joy are key in building a thriving relationship. Before you consider what are you common ingredients you get to create your individual lists. The more honest you can be in these the better.
SEX
Sex can be so difficult to talk about but oh so important! The workbook helps you talk about sex and create sex recipes.
READY tO show your love?
SUBHEADING
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